Relationship Health Self-Assessment
A general reflection tool for communication, trust, boundaries, connection and how supported you currently feel in an important relationship.
This self-assessment is an educational wellbeing tool only. It is not a validated diagnostic instrument and does not replace professional assessment, diagnosis, treatment or emergency care.
I feel able to communicate openly about important issues.
I feel listened to when I explain how something affects me.
Disagreements can usually be discussed without intimidation or humiliation.
My boundaries are generally respected.
I can say no without fearing punishment or retaliation.
There is a reasonable balance of give and take.
I feel emotionally safe expressing uncertainty or vulnerability.
Trust is supported by consistent behaviour.
We are able to repair things after conflict.
I feel valued for who I am rather than only for what I provide.
Important decisions are discussed fairly.
I have space for my own friendships, interests and independence.
Affection and care feel genuine rather than conditional.
I can ask for support when I need it.
Overall, the relationship contributes positively to my wellbeing.
Recommended next steps
Use your result as a starting point for reflection. If you would like to explore the pattern further, consider speaking with Joe's Counselling or another appropriate qualified professional.
Keep or share a copy of your result
You can email a copy of this result to yourself. You can separately choose whether Joe's Counselling may receive an anonymous copy of your responses and result for quality improvement and research.
This self-assessment is an educational wellbeing tool only. It is not a validated diagnostic instrument and does not replace professional assessment, diagnosis, treatment or emergency care.